Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Sunday School Lesson 33: President Brigham Young Leads the Saints
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Sunday School lesson 32: To Seal the Testimony
Friday, August 14, 2009
Traditional Gender Roles
In the old Testament, God said, through Moses, that a man should not lie with another man as with a woman, and anybody who did it should be put to death. I’ve heard it said that the sin for which Sodom was destroyed was the sin of homosexuality, though I find no clear statement of that fact in the Bible; they clearly wanted to rape the angels who came to town to destroy it.
Also, there’s the thematic element of God creating a woman for Adam and Christ talking about it, saying, What God hath joined, let not man put asunder, indicating that if God has a preference, it is for the heterosexual relationship he instituted.
Do we have a circumstance where God gave a woman to a man who didn’t need to have children for some reason? Well, we have Nathan, the prophet, giving David wives when he had plenty already, and more kids than he could possibly rear in paternal love, as evidenced by the disastrous end of his life (although I do want to point out that aside from not creating the loving relationships that would have helped him avoid the struggle for his crown, he was also an adulterer who couldn’t be satisfied with the multitude of wives he already had, so he probably had other issues that contributed to his disastrous home life).
Do we ever have a circumstance where God gave a man as a companion to another man? Paul and his missionary companions, perhaps? Christ sending his messengers forth two-by-two? No. I don’t think so. Both of those were assignment specific. They had a task and a duration, while the relationship commanded for Adam and Eve included references to providing for each other, and that she was to desire him, and that they were to cleave unto one another all the days of their lives.
Does the fact that we are clearly not at a population shortage risk obviate the commandment to form heterosexual monogamous (and anciently plural) marriages? Does the command to multiply and replenish the earth still have value in today’s society? Does a homosexual couple who adopt or become parents through any of various alternative methods fulfil the commandment to multiply and replenish the Earth?
Where is the scriptural basis for abandoning the roles that God established? I believe in a God who will give specific instruction for a specific time without intending it to apply to the global audience for all eternity, but if there is instruction given for all men at one point, I like to look for a specific instruction to stop before I do so.
What circumstances have changed that would support changing the requirement from man + woman to man + companion?
- Do we have the same obligation to have children that Adam did?
o In my mind, this depends on why God told Adam to multiply and replenish the Earth. If He told him to do so in order to ensure the survival of the species, then I would say we are fairly well entrenched and this circumstance may have changed. If, however, He told Adam to do so in order to provide physical bodies for a specific number of God’s children, then we are not removed from this obligation until we hit that number, and should in fact, be having more children as opposed to fewer, which is the trend in most civilized countries.
- Do we have the same obligation to fill the gender roles God gave Adam and Eve (Provider and Nurturer)?
o Once again, this depends on why God told Adam to provide for Eve, and why he told Eve she would conceive and bear children, and why he told Adam he would work all the days of his life. Modern society has eliminated the need for gender discrimination in the workplace by eliminating the type of work where brute strength is a significant advantage, but did God tell Adam he would work because he was stronger than Eve or because of some other gender specific reason, or for some other reason entirely? Did he tell Eve that she would desire her husband because he was a man or because he was her life partner?